Why People Sabotage Their Dreams and 2022 Goals?

Written By Dr Laide Okubena

“Self-sabotage is an addiction to under-achieving, under-earning and overall under-being”. —Gary Ryan Blair

Greetings…

The following is a short list of goals and dreams in no particular order that (for most people) will never get achieved.

Not in 2022…2023…2024…2025 or any year for that matter.

Allow me to provide the list first…and the reason why along with the solution immediately thereafter.

1. Getting in great physical shape through a diet and exercise regimen.

2. Launching a business or initiative whose aim is to take control of your destiny.

3. The pursuit of any calling in sales , real estate , writing, painting, music, film, dance, or any creative art.

4. Any program of spiritual enlightenment to obtain greater peace of mind.

5. The learning of a new language or hobby so as to expand your horizons.

6. Any course designed to overcome an unwholesome habit or addiction.

7. Education of any kind that would provide greater career options.

8. Any act of political, moral, or ethical courage.

9. The decision to change some unhealthy pattern of thought or conduct in ourselves.

10. The taking of any principled stand in the face of adversity.

11. Any act that entails commitment of the heart, time and money.

12. Becoming debt free and financially secure.

Why is it that these goals or New Year resolutions will get very little traction?

How is it even remotely possible that most people will barely make a dent on any of their goals or new year resolutions?

The answer: Self-Sabotage

And, I put together this to help you understand, confront and overcome this mother of a resistance force.

Why is it that these goals or objectives will get very little traction?

How is it even remotely possible that most people will barely make a dent on any of their goals during their entire lifetime?

The answer…

Self-Sabotage

Self sabotage is a state of mind which damages your belief in yourself…

And undermines your ability to achieve that which you want to achieve in 2022.

Self-sabotage is a “disease” which leads to “under-performing”.

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WHY DO PEOPLE SABOTAGE THEMSELVES?

In one sense, under-performing is exactly what it sounds like — achieving far less than you’re capable of.

But it’s also so much more…

Self-sabotage is also an addiction to “under-achieving”, “under-earning” and overall “under-being”.

Do not underestimate the awesome power, sinister intentions…and the overwhelming influence of self-sabotage on your performance.

•Self Sabotage is what a person comes late repeatedly for appointments.

• Self Sabotage is what makes a person allow laziness , Procrastination, Bad attitude overcome them in their life and career goals but they seek to blame other people or say it is village people or a witch or wizard.

*Self Sabotage is what makes an Entrepreneur face continuous Sales Drought in business and fail to do reviews to look into the cause of such problems and come up with solutions.

• IT IS the monster hiding under the bed…

• IT IS the thing that is holding you back…

• IT IS the unwanted gift that keeps on giving.

While it can’t be seen, touched, heard or even smelled…

The extraordinary thing about self-sabotage is that IT MAKES ITS PRESENCE FELT.

It manifests itself in your body and your mind and goes to work like an angry jackhammer…relentlessly pounding hard and loud.

What does self-sabotage feel like?

It begins with sadness, stress and distress.

We feel like an imposter…

Like someone who is unworthy of success…

And we begin to act in ways that work to repel success.

It pervades everything…

How we think, talk, walk and even our posture and facial expression is impacted by it.

We feel unloved and begin to act in self-destructive ways…

In effect, we seize failure from the jaws of victory.

Self-sabotage is negative energy.

It has no redeeming value.

It exists to debilitate not liberate talent.

Its goal is to take you off course… and keep you there.

Self-sabotage is self-generated, self-perpetuated and hell bent on your self-destruction.

Self-sabotage does not play to wound…it plays to kill.

It places a bullseye on whatever you want to be, have and do and aggressively works to kill your hopes, dreams and fondest desires.

To beat self-sabotage…

Be prepared for war as it understands nothing but brute strength…

And it will not give in without one hell of a fight.

Self-sabotage is an engine of destruction and it understands nothing but brute force.

And, to overcome the ugly, unsportsmanlike conduct of self-sabotage you must deploy a strong, relentless offense.

You must develop an indomitable spirit, an unbreakable will, a relentless resolve to rise above the dirty tricks and diabolical mind games of self-sabotage.

You must choose to put self-sabotage behind you…

To stare it in the eye, walk straight through it and advance towards your goals with confidence…conviction, and certainty.

In Conclusion

Take Note of it today…because we repeat what we don’t repair

4 Self Defeating factors that help to stop our goals from Manifesting.

1. Negative Self Talk and limiting beliefs

That small inner voice that you listen to that tells you are not good enough or capable to achieve anything great.

You must avoid listening to this and Believe in yourself all things are possible for you in 2022.

2. Avoidance behaviours

Such as procrastination, delay on important goals that can help you achieve your dreams.

Avoidance behaviours are the root source of fear and anxieties.

3. Focus

Without Focus on the most important things you tend to do the things of less relevance most of the time.

“You cannot afford to give self-
sabotage the upper hand, noor
can you afford to devalue your
talents and reputation by
having a focus deficit.”

Without a long-sustained focus.you place a
death sentence on your goals, and you’ll
eventually wind up on the endangered
species list.

4. Decreased Energy And Motivation.

And, when the finish line is near..when the
Iast 10% is in sight..that’s when self-sabotage
goes into full assault mode because it knows
you have it on the ropes.
When self-sabotage knovws you’re about to
beat it..it hits the panic button.

You must develop an indomitable spirit, an
unbreakable will, a relentless resolve to rise
above the dirty tricks and diabolical mind
games of self-sabotage.

In Conclusion…

I’ll close with good news…and it’s very good news.

If resistance and self-sabotage couldn’t be beaten…

There would be no Freetrade Zone, Dangote refinery, no Man on the Moon, no Effiel Tower …and certainly no Taj Mahal.

Everyone deals with self-sabotage throughout their lives…

And if you choose to…

You can beat it at its own game…and begin to fast track all of your goals.

A hardcore, no-nonsense goal achievement approach that challenges you to confront your fears, overcome resistance and make the impossible possible.

It’s time to change the way you achieve your goals.

Make 2022 Your Best Year Ever Yet!

Question of the day

How can you overcome self sabotage in 2022 and Achieve your Goals and Vision?

In all the areas of your life what are the necessary actions and tasks you need to do?

Thanks for your attention and please enjoy your day.

Dr Laide Okubena

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